Such a simple phrase, but when put into action, one that can make all the difference in the world for your business!
As a small business owner, part of cultivating a growth mindset is to take a careful look at the thoughts you have about yourself.
What are you telling yourself about what you can or can’t do?
What beliefs do you have about yourself that could be keeping you from reaching your full potential?
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Coming from a reactionary place or a place of lack won’t move you closer to your goals!
Following are 7 mompreneur attitudes that could be keeping you from developing a growth mindset for business success.
1. “Whether I’m focusing on my business or on my family, I’m neglecting the other”.
What mompreneur hasn’t thought this at least once?
According to a survey done by 99 Designs, 71% of mompreneurs are the primary childcare provider in their family.
This means the vast majority of mompreneurs are balancing their business and their kids (not to mention their partner) – and are usually expected to do it all flawlessly.
But it’s time to throw this expectation under the bus!
No one can “do it all” without letting some stuff fall through the cracks occasionally. This doesn’t make you any less of a mom…or business owner!
2. “The only way to get ahead is to work harder”.
This is the attitude that has led way too many entrepreneurs to burn out!
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Rather than working harder, the trick is to find ways to work smarter. This will be different for every business owner, but some strategies to consider are:
- Outsourcing some of your work
- Stopping all the “busy work” and focusing on what will impact the bottom line
- Finding tools to help you automate certain parts of your business
3. “I’m not important”.
While you may not think this explicitly, it could be the deep-seated belief that keeps you from developing a business growth mindset for success.
Too many mompreneurs believe they should somehow come last: that everybody and everything else needs to be taken care of first.
This belief leads many mompreneurs to neglect themselves when it comes to even basic self-care, like eating, sleeping, and showering.
You are important!
The adage is 100% true: you can’t pour from an empty cup. Prioritize yourself and you’ll start to find you not only feel better but that you’re actually more productive in your business!
4. “I’m not good at sales”.
While I understand this sentiment, constantly repeating this to yourself will inevitably make it true.
You’ve likely heard the saying, “Whether you believe you can or can’t, you are right”?
Being an effective salesperson isn’t a fixed trait – it’s something you can learn. The more you practice it, and tweak it to fit your personality and values, the better you’ll get at it.Being an effective salesperson isn’t a fixed trait – it’s something you can learn. The more you practice it, and tweak it to fit your personality and values, the better you’ll get at it.Click To Tweet.
5. “No one around here lets me work!”
Trust me, I know how challenging it can be to work from home.
But if you’re consistently blaming your family for your lack of progress or momentum, it’s time to dig deeper!
According to Sharon Hadary, executive director of the Center for Women’s Business Research, “being home-based is not a substitute for childcare”.
In other words, don’t expect that you’ll be able to manage work and kids without some careful, proactive planning.
This might mean setting up activities or care for the kids a couple of times a week, setting work hours after bedtime, or maybe even setting clearer boundaries around work hours when everyone’s at home.
6. “I don’t have the right skills”.
I’m going to let you in on a little secret: not many of us have all the skills required to run a business!
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If you truly find you’re lacking a skill, the fix is simple:
- Learn the skills you need through practice or training, or
- Hire someone else who does have those skills.
You don’t have to do it all on your own!
7. “I don’t like promoting myself”.
While this may be true for you right now, it doesn’t have to stay that way.
Try this: Think about how your product or service helps people. What problems are you solving? What results are people getting?
Now promote THAT.
And remember that when you promote yourself, you’re not doing it because you think you’re so great, but because you know you can help more people this way!
If you’re constantly trying to avoid failure – rather than gain success – you’ll find you’re making things harder than they need to be.
But by challenging the beliefs above, you’ll be well on your way to developing the growth mindset that’s necessary for you to achieve success in your business and your life!